Let's Meet

So, today one of my closest friends scheduled a meeting...

One of my best friends has this new guy in her life. I have yet to meet this man, however, have formed my own opinion of him, just based on the personality of the friend and her past relationships with men. So, today, she and the guy scheduled to meet, because their previous plans fell through. Well, the meeting spot is about an hour and a half outside of where we live and guess what....he does not show up!

She calls me all bitter and what not (and I'm clearly not surprised). She and the guy have been talking off and on for quite sometime (in her mind), so she's really attached. Well, the only thing she gets from it is, "My bad...I was playing cards and lost track of time. Maybe another day."

For her, that was the day. Again, things didn't work out before, and she's very much feeling this guy. In my book, it's time to stop! Not necessarily stop with men all together, but more so be a friend. Learn the tricks of the trade, play his game, and then drop kick him when he gets out of pocket.

This applies to both sexes, men and women:

Don't schedule something, making it seem as if things are mutual, especially, when you know things are hard for the other person (just left a relationship, death of a family member, financial troubles, etc.) and show up late or not at all. Serious consequences follow!