Some Real Suspicious Activities

Two men, standing with black trenchcoats in 85 degree weather...Young black male standing outside with his back to semi-heavy traffic in a corner of a building (as if he is receiving some play)...A woman looks around in a busy crowd and then drops her bag and runs....

As my boy Woody would say, "That's looks a little suspect!" I just sometimes don't understand where things come from. I try to make the best (and absolute possible worse) of situations, so that I am prepared for the unknown.

For example, a friend of mine has a girl trying to meet up with him randomly in the night. Now, this guy is really cool, and he at one point liked the girl. However, as I tried to explain to him, people just don't drop by randomly all in the nights of the howling wolves! She has to be up to something! So that matters don't get worse, I explained to him, if she does call to come by, just let her know if he doesn't feel like having company, or if he does, fine, but don't let things get out of hand.

I mean, if that ain't suspect, I don't know what is! He asked me to put myself in his shoes, and I really couldn't. I mean, if I were a guy (fellas, I'm really about to say something really ignorant), I wouldn't turn down some ass, because that's what I would think she was trying to do when coming as late as she is trying. But, since I am a woman, if a guy were trying to come over, and it was Stifling Steven, I probably wouldn't let him come. Depending on how unique the relationship is with the person, depends on the privileged they would be. I mean, if BD#1 (HUGS TJ!) called and was saying he wants to roll through at 3 in the morn, I would give him the okay. If it were Reluctant Roger, I may have to think twice..."Just call me prior to you leaving and I'll let you know."